Add Feelings
- Masturbate by touching yourself in the places you like to stimulate the most.
- Use toys.
- Make circular motions with your hips.
- Ask your partner to spank your buttocks or do it yourself.
- Masturbate together. Looking at each other, you are likely to come faster.
Talk to your partner about your desires
This is useful in any case, because it will help you understand each other's needs and find options that are suitable for both. By knowing what turns each of you on, you will be able to reach the peak of pleasure faster.
Look for positions that speed up the onset of orgasm
Maybe you need deeper penetration, more contact, or room for extra hand stimulation. Experiment and find what works for you.